And I’m probably just as surprised as you are that I’m posting again. I have no idea how many of you are still out there and it will be hilarious to see how many of you unsubscribe from this. I mean, it’s been almost two years since I’ve written a post and I was barely posting back then anyway. And so much has changed, yet so much has stayed the same. I’m still a catastrophe and technically, still a wife. Sometimes, I feel like I’m in total mid-life crisis mode and at other times, I think I’m figuring things out.
Long story, short – in February 2017, I decided to separate from G. That’s right, I’d already made the decision (and told him) before we went to North Carolina and Mexico…the last few posts I did on here. It was the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make. I’ll write more about that later, if anyone’s interested. We stayed living together for a while, then he moved out, then I moved out and he moved back. And now we’re living together again! I know, so weird. We’re not together, but we’re really good friends and roommates! I think we’re better at being friends than we were at being spouses.
I have a boyfriend (we’ve been together for about a year and a half) and we’ve had quite a crazy time together. He’s nothing like G and is much more private (especially when it comes to social media) so I don’t know how much I’ll share about him. I’ve found all of this relationship stuff very interesting, though, and I’m really happy/impressed with how G and I have managed it. That’s what made me want to write again. I think we’re in a very unique situation and it’s working. Is any of this where I thought I would be at this point in my life? No. Do I regret any of it? No. I’m just trying to do the best I can. That’s it.
I have downgraded my account here on WordPress and it’s not allowing me to upload photos. I’ll have to figure that out. In the meantime, you can find me @the_marni on Instagram, if you’re dying to see a lot of pictures of Biff. Yes, we still have him and yes, he’s still a psycho.